On Wednesday, Shin and Heather came over and we had pizza and games. They were spending Thanksgiving day running a 5k and having dinner with their neighbors. We hadn't seen them for several weeks (our normal Sunday dinner routine had been shaken up a bit) and we had fun catching up.
Thursday, we went to J's parents and had an early dinner with his siblings and parents. We perused the Black Friday ads, watched the game, and relaxed. More family came over later and spent some time with us and Kai, who had a special place set up for him in the formal living room so he could be a part of everything.
Kai did really well. He fell asleep not long after we got there, and slept until we woke him several hours later when the other family members came over. He was very content--I think he enjoyed being out and somewhere new.
Friday, I dropped Zuri off with my mom, so Kai and I could brave the crowds for Black Friday. Emily had something she wanted me to get for her (since she cannot go herself being out of the country), and it took me four different stores before I found the item for her. Whew! That is a lot of work with Kai--hauling him and all his stuff in and out of the car. I went to Costco first, they didn't have the item (but it wasn't a total waste because I found my Christmas present!), so I went to Best Buy next. They had already brought the price back up (I guess it was just a doorbuster item good for the short time window only), so I went to Shopko, but they were all out. Finally, I went to Target, and if they didn't have it, I was just going to get it online. Target did have it--lots of the item! Hooray!
Since I was there, I decided not to brave another store with Kai, so I picked up some grocery items that I needed for dinner with my mom and aunt that night. I started out with a basket; pushing Kai's stroller and the basket handle resting in the crook of my arm. It soon became apparent that I needed too much stuff for the basket, so I got a cart. I pushed Kai's stroller with one hand and pulled the cart along behind me with the other. It was awkward, but I did it. I went grocery shopping by myself with Kai! I am proud of myself. It may seem like such a simple thing, but it is one more step toward independence and not being locked away in the house. Last year it was unthinkable to drag him around as I did Friday because of his condition. Amazing what a difference a year makes; Kai loved getting out. He was cooing and blowing raspberries the whole time.
Friday evening we had dinner with my mom, stepdad, sister, aunt, and my cousin. We celebrated my sister's birthday--she is turning eight, and just enjoyed spending time together. Even though we all live within the same neighborhood, we really don't see each other very often.
On Saturday, we got a call from J's "Uncle" Lucy, who was in town from Las Vegas, and she wanted to stop by to visit. It was her first time meeting Kai and she took to him right away. We spent a couple hours catching up and trading stories, and before we knew it, they had to leave.
Saturday afternoon we had respite hours, so J and I went out shopping for Christmas gifts. We really didn't get very much because we are in the final stages of closing on our house and we don't want to upset the status quo, but we did get a start on it. :-)